1st Day, Weep: Crying is very necessary. Have a good cry, so your heart can be a little more relieved. But you must remember, weeping bitterly because loss of no more than a day. If you are constantly crying and lamenting the events that had passed, meaning you do not intend to heal the wounds of your heart.
2nd Day, Sharing: Sharing grief with a friend is the right step. You will find something different, and you feel not alone facing this problem. There are still many loyal friends who accompany you. Talk to them must be very exciting, because your friend will not remain silent about the grief. Who knows, they have a good idea to forget the shadow of the former.
3rd Day, Clear Memory: It's so hard to do, is not it? But you have to do it. Throw away the things that always remind you of your ex. Erase names and numbers in the former your handphone. Neatly wrap gift items ex, and put it in a place that you rarely see. Oops, try to avoid all travel routes that can evoke memories of your ex.
4th Day, Create a New Resolution: Begin to create something new in your life. Make a list of the your diary, what steps will you take to organize a life without a lover beside you again. But you must remember you, do not make something clumsy to repeat the same mistakes. Make the right choices in life.
5th Day, Friends Gather Together: When you are dating, certainly consumed a lot of time together with your lover. And certainly, you very rarely get together with friends.Invite them to regroup, to just hang out or talk things interesting as it once again. After that you will feel better and enjoy the thought of the former can suddenly disappear.
6th Day, Trying New Things: Trying something new, which means you do one step forward in your life. Moreover, if you have a talent that has not been developed. Why not try to develop it? There is no harm, you audition reality shows that are popular now, for example. Who knows, you famous and a lot of money. But even better if you focus first by learning, or begin the first lesson like you do not like.
7th Day, Pamper Yourself: Disconnect love does not mean torturing yourself. Pamper yourself can be a powerful therapy for forget heart pain. For example, you begin to diligently take care of themselves, however, physical appearance very important that you can substitute a lot better than the former. If you have more money, it would not hurt you cool clothes shopping.
8th Day, Search New Community: Go to the wider society, the more friends, the more chances you get to know different kinds of characters. Not only that, you also get a wider knowledge, and can learn to socialize. Hmm ... who knew there was a sweet creature that can become a new target.
9th Day, Flirting: It's time to open up and stocking charm. World not only as wide as the leaves, there are still many good people who deserve be your lover . Do not just want to fast because a replacement, then you become lost standard. But instead, when you're single, it's time you had a chance to choose the best.
10th Day, Goodbye Mr./Miss "X": Well ... Do not feel it's time to say goodbye to your ex. Feelings of sadness and heartache that disturbing your mind has been cured. And now you're more willing to look at a new day.
Source: Aneka Yess Magazine, Edition 7*)
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